“All gave some, and some gave all. Some stood through for the red, white and blue and some had to fall. So if you ever think of me, think of all your liberties and recall. Some gave all.” - Billy Ray Cyrus
On this Memorial Day, I wanted to take a moment to express my gratitude for the men and women - past and present - who have served our wonderful country.
There is no doubt that these brave men and women deserve our respect and admiration.
Because of my age, I did not fully understand the hardship for our military members and their families until Operation Desert Storm. I can remember one of my sorority sisters who worried daily because her boyfriend was serving in the Gulf War. And during one brief time when she did not hear from him as planned, she cried until she got word that he was okay. I could not imagine her fear.
When the invasion of Iraq occurred, I saw the hardship my friend Angel experienced. Her husband was among the first round of West Virginia National Guardsmen to go over and help with operations.
I can remember my friend Susan and I visiting her - sitting with her as she sobbed and sobbed. She could not turn off the television - she was glued to CNN and any other news channel that could provide details about the troops. She became a single parent who juggled the many situations her husband Scotty once had. And she had to keep her family together - without losing it herself.
I think about the veterans who have told me their stories of hardship and survival. I think of my friends who are now serving our country and are in the scariest of situations.
I am forever grateful for their sacrifice. And I am so very appreciative that “all gave some, and some gave all.”
Posted on the www.wvablue.com website was an entry that I thought I would share. It is a list of those West Virginia men and women who lost their lives in service to our country. These are our recent losses - those who were serving in Afghanistan and Iraq.
And sadly, on the news today was the announcement that West Virginia lost another solider this week. Brent S. Cole from Reedsville, WV was killed May 22, 2009 when his helicopter crashed in Afghanistan.

Photo from http://brent-cole.gonetoosoon.org/
Putting faces and names with those that have made the ultimate sacrifice - in this day and time - reminds us that we are so blessed to have these unselfish individuals.
God be with their families.

Army Sgt. Gene Arden Vance Jr., 38, of Morgantown.
May 19, 2002. Afghanistan.

Air Force Staff Sgt. Anissa A. Shero, 31, of Grafton.
June 12, 2002. Afghanistan.

Army Pfc. Richard W. Hafer, 21, of Nitro.
Nov. 15, 2003. Iraq.

Army Staff Sgt. Roger C. Turner Jr., 37, of Parkersburg.
Feb. 1, 2004. Iraq.

Army Pfc. Ernest Harold Sutphin, 21, of Parkersburg.
March 18, 2004. Iraq.

Marine Cpl. Joshua S. Wilfong, 22, of Walker.
April 30, 2004. Iraq.

Marine Lance Cpl. Juston T. Thacker, 21, of Bluefield.
June 24, 2004. Afghanistan.

Army Spec. Danny B. Daniels II, 23, of Varney.
July 20, 2004. Iraq.

Army Sgt. DeForest L. Talbert, 24, of Charleston.
July 27, 2004. Iraq.

Army Sgt. Bobby E. Beasley, 36, of Inwood.
Aug. 7, 2004. Afghanistan.

Marine Lance Cpl. John T. Byrd II, 23, of Fairview.
Oct. 30, 2004. Iraq.

Army Sgt. 1st Class Otie J. McVey, 53, of Oak Hill.
Evacuated from Iraq Sept. 23, 2004, for a non-combat related illness and died in Beaver, W.Va. Nov. 7, 2004.
Marine Cpl. Romulo J. Jimenez II, 21, of Bellington.
Nov. 10, 2004. Iraq. (I could not find a photo of him, but there’s a story here.)

Marine Lance Cpl. Bradley L. Parker, 19, of Rachel.
Nov. 15, 2004. Iraq.

Army Staff Sgt. Darren D. VanKomen, 33, of Bluefield.
Dec. 21, 2004. Iraq.

Marine Cpl. Bryan J. Richardson, 23, of Summersville.
March 25, 2005. Iraq.

Army Pfc. Brian S. Ulbrich, 23, of Chapmanville.
June 5, 2005. Iraq.

Marine Lance Cpl. Adam J. Crumpler, 19, of Campbells Creek.
June 18, 2005. Iraq.

Navy Petty Officer Jeffrey S. Taylor, 30, of Midway.
June 28, 2005. Afghanistan.

Army Staff Sgt. Jeremy A. Brown, 26, of Mabscott.
July 3, 2005. Iraq.

Army Staff Sgt. Robert F. White, 34, of Cross Lanes.
Sept. 26, 2005. Afghanistan.

Army Sgt. Brian C. Karim, 22, of Talcott.
Dec. 13, 2005. Iraq.

Army Sgt. Matthew D. Hunter, 31, of Valley Grove.
Jan. 23, 2006. Iraq.

Marine Cpl. William B. Fulks, 23, of Culloden.
May 18, 2006. Iraq.

Army Staff Sgt. Stephen A. Seale, 25, of Grafton.
Aug. 6, 2006. Iraq.

Sgt. Charles J. McClain, 26, of Follansbee.
Oct. 31, 2006. Afghanistan.

Army Pvt. Michael J. Slater, 19, of Scott Depot.
April 21, 2007. Iraq.

Army Spec. Daniel F. Mehringer, 20, of Morgantown.
April 27, 2007. Afghanistan.

Army Staff Sgt. Stanley B. Reynolds, 37, of Rock.
Aug. 14, 2007. Iraq.

Army Pfc. Thomas Randolph Wilson, 21, of Morgantown.
Aug. 27, 2007. Afghanistan.

Army Cpl. Jason N. Marchand, 26, of Greenwood.
Oct. 5, 2007. Iraq.

Army Capt. Benjamin D. Tiffner, 31, of Pigeon.
Nov. 7, 2007. Iraq.

Marine Capt. Garrett T. Lawton, 31, of Charleston.
Aug. 4, 2008. Afghanistan.

Army Sgt. 1st Class Jamie S. Nicholas, 32, of Maysel.
Sept. 29, 2008. Afghanistan.